◄ ﻣﺬﻛﺮﺍﺕ ﺯﻭﺟﺔ ﻏﺎﻓﻠﺔ ﺗﻘﻮﻝ ◄
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ﻭﻗﻔﺖ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﻤﻄﺒﺦ ﻷﺭﺑﻊ ﺳﺎﻋﺎﺕ ﻣﺘﻮﺍﺻﻠﺔ ﺃﺣﻀﺮ ﺃﺷﻬﻰ
ﺍﻷﻃﺒﺎﻕ
ﻟﺰﻭﺟﻲ ﻭﺃﺑﻨﺎﺋﻲ ﻣﺎ ﺑﻴﻦ ﺗﺤﻀﻴﺮ ﻭﺗﻘﻄﻴﻊ ﻭﺗﻐﺴﻴﻞ .
ﺍﻧﺘﻬﻴﺖ ﻭﺫﻫﺒﺖ ﻷﺻﻠﻲ ﻭﻓﻜﺮﺕ ﻟﻤﺎﺫﺍ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﻤﻄﺒﺦ ﺃﻗﻒ
ﻛﻞ ﻫﺬﻩ ﺍﻟﺴﺎﻋﺎﺕ
ﻭﻣﺜﻠﻬﺎ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻷﺳﻮﺍﻕ ﻭﻻ ﺃﺳﺘﻄﻴﻊ ﺃﻥ ﺃﻗﻔﻬﺎ ﺑﻴﻦ ﻳﺪﻱ ﺭﺏ
ﺍﻟﻌﺎﻟﻤﻴﻦ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﺼﻼﺓ؟
ﻟﻤﺎﺫﺍ ﺃﻧﻘﺮﻫﺎ ﻧﻘﺮﺍ ﻓﻲ ﺧﻤﺲ ﺩﻗﺎﺋﻖ ﻭﺃﺷﻌﺮ ﺃﻧﻲ ﺑﺬﻟﺖ
ﺟﻬﺪﺍ ﻛﺒﻴﺮﺍ؟
ﻟﻤﺎﺫﺍ ﺃﻗﺘﺼﺮ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻔﺮﺍﺋﺾ ﺑﺤﺠﺔ ﺍﻧﻲ ﻣﺘﻌﺒﺔ ﻣﻦ ﺃﻋﻤﺎﻝ
ﺍﻟﻤﻨﺰﻝ ﻭﺃﺗﺮﻙ ﺍﻟﻨﻮﺍﻓﻞ؟
ﻫﻮ ﺍﻟﻘﻠﺐ ﻭﻣﺎ ﻓﻴﻪ ﻟﻮ ﻛﺎﻥ ﺣﺒﻲ ﻟﺮﺑﻲ ﺃﻛﺒﺮ ﻟﻮﻗﻔﺖ ﺃﻃﻮﻝ
.
( ﻳَﺎ ﺃَﻳُّﻬَﺎ ﺍﻟْﺈِﻧْﺴَﺎﻥُ ﺇِﻧَّﻚَ ﻛَﺎﺩِﺡٌ ﺇِﻟَﻰٰ ﺭَﺑِّﻚَ ﻛَﺪْﺣًﺎ ﻓَﻤُﻠَﺎﻗِﻴﻪِ)
[ ﺳﻮﺭﺓ ﺍﻻﻧﺸﻘﺎﻕ : 6 ]
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● ﻋﻨﺪﻣﺎ ﻛﻨﺖ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﺸﻬﻮﺭ ﺍﻷﻭﻟﻰ ﻛﻨﺖ ﺃﻋﺎﻧﻲ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻐﺜﻴﺎﻥ
ﻭﻛﺎﻥ ﻋﺬﺭﺍ ﻟﻲ ﺃﻥ ﺃﻫﺠﺮ ﺍﻟﻘﺮﺁﻥ ﻷﻧﻲ ﻣﺮﻳﻀﺔ ﻭﻻ ﺃﺳﺘﻄﻴﻊ
ﺍﻟﺘﺮﻛﻴﺰ .
ﻟﻜﻨﻲ ﻓﻲ ﻣﻘﺮ ﺍﻟﻌﻤﻞ ﺣﺼﻠﺖ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻣﻜﺎﻓﺄﺓ ﻷﺩﺍﺋﻲ ﺍﻟﻤﺘﻤﻴﺰ.
ﺗﺮﻯ ﻟﻤﺎﺫﺍ ﺭﻛﺰﺕ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻮﻇﻴﻔﺔ ﻭﻟﻢ ﺃﺭﻛﺰ ﻣﻊ ﺍﻟﻘﺮﺁﻥ؟
( ﺃَﻓَﻠَﺎ ﻳَﺘَﺪَﺑَّﺮُﻭﻥَ ﺍﻟْﻘُﺮْﺁﻥَ ﺃَﻡْ ﻋَﻠَﻰٰ ﻗُﻠُﻮﺏٍ ﺃَﻗْﻔَﺎﻟُﻬَﺎ ) [ ﺳﻮﺭﺓ ﻣﺤﻤﺪ
: 24]
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● ﻗﻴﻞ ﻟﻲ ﺃﻥ ﻗﻴﺎﻡ ﺍﻟﻠﻴﻞ ﻟﻪ ﻓﻀﻞ ﻛﺒﻴﺮ ﻭﻟﻜﻨﻲ ﻻ ﺃﻗﻮﻯ
ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻓﺄﻧﺎ ﺇﻧﺴﺎﻧﺔ ﻣﺮﻫﻘﺔ.
ﻓﻲ ﻧﻔﺲ ﺍﻟﻠﻴﻠﺔ ﺍﺳﺘﻴﻘﻆ ﺍﺑﻨﻲ ﻣﺮﻳﻀﺎ
ﻓﺎﺳﺘﻴﻘﻈﺖ ﻧﺸﻴﻄﺔ ﺟﺪﺍ ﻭﺟﺮﻳﺖ ﺑﻪ ﻟﻠﻤﺴﺘﺸﻔﻰ ﺑﻜﻞ
ﻧﺸﺎﻁ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺍﻟﻔﺠﺮ. ﻋﺠﻴﺐ ﺃﻣﺮﻱ!
( ﻓَﻠَﺎ ﺗُﻌْﺠِﺒْﻚَ ﺃَﻣْﻮَﺍﻟُﻬُﻢْ ﻭَﻟَﺎ ﺃَﻭْﻟَﺎﺩُﻫُﻢْ ۚ ﺇِﻧَّﻤَﺎ ﻳُﺮِﻳﺪُ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪُ ﻟِﻴُﻌَﺬِّﺑَﻬُﻢْ
ﺑِﻬَﺎ
ﻓِﻲ ﺍﻟْﺤَﻴَﺎﺓِ ﺍﻟﺪُّﻧْﻴَﺎ ﻭَﺗَﺰْﻫَﻖَ ﺃَﻧْﻔُﺴُﻬُﻢْ ﻭَﻫُﻢْ ﻛَﺎﻓِﺮُﻭﻥَ) [ ﺳﻮﺭﺓ
ﺍﻟﺘﻮﺑﺔ : 55 ]
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● ﺃﺭﺳﻠﺖ ﻟﻲ ﺭﺳﺎﻟﺔ ﻣﻦ ﺻﺪﻳﻘﺘﻲ ﻋﻦ ﻛﻔﺎﻟﺔ ﻳﺘﻴﻢ ﺷﻬﺮﻳﺎ
ﺑﻤﺒﻠﻎ 250 ﺭﻳﺎﻝ
ﻓﺎﻋﺘﺬﺭﺕ ﻛﻴﻒ ﺃﺿﻤﻦ ﺃﻥ ﺃﺗﻤﻜﻦ ﻣﻦ ﺩﻓﻊ ﻫﺬﺍ ﺍﻟﻤﺒﻠﻎ
ﺷﻬﺮﻳﺎ
ﺭﺑﻤﺎ ﺗﺴﺘﺠﺪ ﻟﻲ ﻇﺮﻭﻑ ﻣﻔﺎﺟﺄﺓ ﻭﻻ ﺃﻋﻠﻢ .
ﻣﻊ ﺃﻧﻲ ﺃﺩﻓﻊ ﻧﻔﺲ ﺍﻟﻤﺒﻠﻎ ﺷﻬﺮﻳﺎ ﻷﺑﻨﺎﺋﻲ ﻟﻴﻠﻌﺒﻮﺍ ﺑﻬﺎ ﻓﻲ
ﺍﻷﻟﻌﺎﺏ ﺍﻟﻜﻬﺮﺑﺎﺋﻴﺔ
ﻟﻴﻌﻮﺩﻭﺍ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺍﻟﺒﻴﺖ ﻳﺒﻜﻮﻥ ﻭﻳﻘﻮﻟﻮﺍ ﻟﻢ ﻧﻜﺘﻔﻲ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻠﻌﺐ !
( ﻛَﻠَّﺎ ۖ ﺑَﻞْ ﻟَﺎ ﺗُﻜْﺮِﻣُﻮﻥَ ﺍﻟْﻴَﺘِﻴﻢَ ) [ ﺳﻮﺭﺓ ﺍﻟﻔﺠﺮ : 17]
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● ﻫﺬﻩ ﺍﻟﺴﻨﺔ ﻟﻢ ﺃﺻﻢ ﻳﻮﻣﺎ ﺗﻨﻔﻼ ﻟﻠﻪ ﻓﺄﻧﺎ ﺣﺎﻣﻞ .
ﻟﻜﻦ ﻋﺠﻴﺐ ﻟﻤﺎﺫﺍ ﺃﺿﺮﺑﺖ ﻋﻦ ﺍﻷﻛﻞ ﺍﻻﺳﺒﻮﻉ ﺍﻟﻤﺎﺿﻲ
ﺑﺴﺒﺐ ﻏﻀﺒﻲ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺯﻭﺟﻲ؟ !
(ﻭَﻣَﻦْ ﺃَﻋْﺮَﺽَ ﻋَﻦْ ﺫِﻛْﺮِﻱ ﻓَﺈِﻥَّ ﻟَﻪُ ﻣَﻌِﻴﺸَﺔً ﺿَﻨْﻜًﺎ ﻭَﻧَﺤْﺸُﺮُﻩُ
ﻳَﻮْﻡَ ﺍﻟْﻘِﻴَﺎﻣَﺔِ ﺃَﻋْﻤَﻰٰ ) [ﺳﻮﺭﺓ ﻃﻪ : 124]
ﺗﺴﺘﺤﻖ ﺍﻟﺘﺄﻣﻞ ﻭﺍﻹﻋﺘﺒﺎﺭ
ﻻﻧﻬﺎ ﻭﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﺭﺳﺎﻟﻪ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﺼﻤﻴﻢ 100% ﻓﻬﻲ ﻣﻮﺟﻬﻪ ﻟﻠﺬﻛﻮﺭ
ﻭﺍﻻﻧﺎﺙ
( ﻛﻠﻜﻢ ﺭﺍﻉٍ ﻭﻛﻠﻜﻢ ﻣﺴﺆﻝ ﻋﻦ ﺭﻋﻴﺘﻪ)
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ﻭﻗﻔﺖ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﻤﻄﺒﺦ ﻷﺭﺑﻊ ﺳﺎﻋﺎﺕ ﻣﺘﻮﺍﺻﻠﺔ ﺃﺣﻀﺮ ﺃﺷﻬﻰ
ﺍﻷﻃﺒﺎﻕ
ﻟﺰﻭﺟﻲ ﻭﺃﺑﻨﺎﺋﻲ ﻣﺎ ﺑﻴﻦ ﺗﺤﻀﻴﺮ ﻭﺗﻘﻄﻴﻊ ﻭﺗﻐﺴﻴﻞ .
ﺍﻧﺘﻬﻴﺖ ﻭﺫﻫﺒﺖ ﻷﺻﻠﻲ ﻭﻓﻜﺮﺕ ﻟﻤﺎﺫﺍ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﻤﻄﺒﺦ ﺃﻗﻒ
ﻛﻞ ﻫﺬﻩ ﺍﻟﺴﺎﻋﺎﺕ
ﻭﻣﺜﻠﻬﺎ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻷﺳﻮﺍﻕ ﻭﻻ ﺃﺳﺘﻄﻴﻊ ﺃﻥ ﺃﻗﻔﻬﺎ ﺑﻴﻦ ﻳﺪﻱ ﺭﺏ
ﺍﻟﻌﺎﻟﻤﻴﻦ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﺼﻼﺓ؟
ﻟﻤﺎﺫﺍ ﺃﻧﻘﺮﻫﺎ ﻧﻘﺮﺍ ﻓﻲ ﺧﻤﺲ ﺩﻗﺎﺋﻖ ﻭﺃﺷﻌﺮ ﺃﻧﻲ ﺑﺬﻟﺖ
ﺟﻬﺪﺍ ﻛﺒﻴﺮﺍ؟
ﻟﻤﺎﺫﺍ ﺃﻗﺘﺼﺮ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻔﺮﺍﺋﺾ ﺑﺤﺠﺔ ﺍﻧﻲ ﻣﺘﻌﺒﺔ ﻣﻦ ﺃﻋﻤﺎﻝ
ﺍﻟﻤﻨﺰﻝ ﻭﺃﺗﺮﻙ ﺍﻟﻨﻮﺍﻓﻞ؟
ﻫﻮ ﺍﻟﻘﻠﺐ ﻭﻣﺎ ﻓﻴﻪ ﻟﻮ ﻛﺎﻥ ﺣﺒﻲ ﻟﺮﺑﻲ ﺃﻛﺒﺮ ﻟﻮﻗﻔﺖ ﺃﻃﻮﻝ
.
( ﻳَﺎ ﺃَﻳُّﻬَﺎ ﺍﻟْﺈِﻧْﺴَﺎﻥُ ﺇِﻧَّﻚَ ﻛَﺎﺩِﺡٌ ﺇِﻟَﻰٰ ﺭَﺑِّﻚَ ﻛَﺪْﺣًﺎ ﻓَﻤُﻠَﺎﻗِﻴﻪِ)
[ ﺳﻮﺭﺓ ﺍﻻﻧﺸﻘﺎﻕ : 6 ]
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● ﻋﻨﺪﻣﺎ ﻛﻨﺖ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﺸﻬﻮﺭ ﺍﻷﻭﻟﻰ ﻛﻨﺖ ﺃﻋﺎﻧﻲ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻐﺜﻴﺎﻥ
ﻭﻛﺎﻥ ﻋﺬﺭﺍ ﻟﻲ ﺃﻥ ﺃﻫﺠﺮ ﺍﻟﻘﺮﺁﻥ ﻷﻧﻲ ﻣﺮﻳﻀﺔ ﻭﻻ ﺃﺳﺘﻄﻴﻊ
ﺍﻟﺘﺮﻛﻴﺰ .
ﻟﻜﻨﻲ ﻓﻲ ﻣﻘﺮ ﺍﻟﻌﻤﻞ ﺣﺼﻠﺖ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻣﻜﺎﻓﺄﺓ ﻷﺩﺍﺋﻲ ﺍﻟﻤﺘﻤﻴﺰ.
ﺗﺮﻯ ﻟﻤﺎﺫﺍ ﺭﻛﺰﺕ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻮﻇﻴﻔﺔ ﻭﻟﻢ ﺃﺭﻛﺰ ﻣﻊ ﺍﻟﻘﺮﺁﻥ؟
( ﺃَﻓَﻠَﺎ ﻳَﺘَﺪَﺑَّﺮُﻭﻥَ ﺍﻟْﻘُﺮْﺁﻥَ ﺃَﻡْ ﻋَﻠَﻰٰ ﻗُﻠُﻮﺏٍ ﺃَﻗْﻔَﺎﻟُﻬَﺎ ) [ ﺳﻮﺭﺓ ﻣﺤﻤﺪ
: 24]
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● ﻗﻴﻞ ﻟﻲ ﺃﻥ ﻗﻴﺎﻡ ﺍﻟﻠﻴﻞ ﻟﻪ ﻓﻀﻞ ﻛﺒﻴﺮ ﻭﻟﻜﻨﻲ ﻻ ﺃﻗﻮﻯ
ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻓﺄﻧﺎ ﺇﻧﺴﺎﻧﺔ ﻣﺮﻫﻘﺔ.
ﻓﻲ ﻧﻔﺲ ﺍﻟﻠﻴﻠﺔ ﺍﺳﺘﻴﻘﻆ ﺍﺑﻨﻲ ﻣﺮﻳﻀﺎ
ﻓﺎﺳﺘﻴﻘﻈﺖ ﻧﺸﻴﻄﺔ ﺟﺪﺍ ﻭﺟﺮﻳﺖ ﺑﻪ ﻟﻠﻤﺴﺘﺸﻔﻰ ﺑﻜﻞ
ﻧﺸﺎﻁ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺍﻟﻔﺠﺮ. ﻋﺠﻴﺐ ﺃﻣﺮﻱ!
( ﻓَﻠَﺎ ﺗُﻌْﺠِﺒْﻚَ ﺃَﻣْﻮَﺍﻟُﻬُﻢْ ﻭَﻟَﺎ ﺃَﻭْﻟَﺎﺩُﻫُﻢْ ۚ ﺇِﻧَّﻤَﺎ ﻳُﺮِﻳﺪُ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪُ ﻟِﻴُﻌَﺬِّﺑَﻬُﻢْ
ﺑِﻬَﺎ
ﻓِﻲ ﺍﻟْﺤَﻴَﺎﺓِ ﺍﻟﺪُّﻧْﻴَﺎ ﻭَﺗَﺰْﻫَﻖَ ﺃَﻧْﻔُﺴُﻬُﻢْ ﻭَﻫُﻢْ ﻛَﺎﻓِﺮُﻭﻥَ) [ ﺳﻮﺭﺓ
ﺍﻟﺘﻮﺑﺔ : 55 ]
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● ﺃﺭﺳﻠﺖ ﻟﻲ ﺭﺳﺎﻟﺔ ﻣﻦ ﺻﺪﻳﻘﺘﻲ ﻋﻦ ﻛﻔﺎﻟﺔ ﻳﺘﻴﻢ ﺷﻬﺮﻳﺎ
ﺑﻤﺒﻠﻎ 250 ﺭﻳﺎﻝ
ﻓﺎﻋﺘﺬﺭﺕ ﻛﻴﻒ ﺃﺿﻤﻦ ﺃﻥ ﺃﺗﻤﻜﻦ ﻣﻦ ﺩﻓﻊ ﻫﺬﺍ ﺍﻟﻤﺒﻠﻎ
ﺷﻬﺮﻳﺎ
ﺭﺑﻤﺎ ﺗﺴﺘﺠﺪ ﻟﻲ ﻇﺮﻭﻑ ﻣﻔﺎﺟﺄﺓ ﻭﻻ ﺃﻋﻠﻢ .
ﻣﻊ ﺃﻧﻲ ﺃﺩﻓﻊ ﻧﻔﺲ ﺍﻟﻤﺒﻠﻎ ﺷﻬﺮﻳﺎ ﻷﺑﻨﺎﺋﻲ ﻟﻴﻠﻌﺒﻮﺍ ﺑﻬﺎ ﻓﻲ
ﺍﻷﻟﻌﺎﺏ ﺍﻟﻜﻬﺮﺑﺎﺋﻴﺔ
ﻟﻴﻌﻮﺩﻭﺍ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺍﻟﺒﻴﺖ ﻳﺒﻜﻮﻥ ﻭﻳﻘﻮﻟﻮﺍ ﻟﻢ ﻧﻜﺘﻔﻲ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻠﻌﺐ !
( ﻛَﻠَّﺎ ۖ ﺑَﻞْ ﻟَﺎ ﺗُﻜْﺮِﻣُﻮﻥَ ﺍﻟْﻴَﺘِﻴﻢَ ) [ ﺳﻮﺭﺓ ﺍﻟﻔﺠﺮ : 17]
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● ﻫﺬﻩ ﺍﻟﺴﻨﺔ ﻟﻢ ﺃﺻﻢ ﻳﻮﻣﺎ ﺗﻨﻔﻼ ﻟﻠﻪ ﻓﺄﻧﺎ ﺣﺎﻣﻞ .
ﻟﻜﻦ ﻋﺠﻴﺐ ﻟﻤﺎﺫﺍ ﺃﺿﺮﺑﺖ ﻋﻦ ﺍﻷﻛﻞ ﺍﻻﺳﺒﻮﻉ ﺍﻟﻤﺎﺿﻲ
ﺑﺴﺒﺐ ﻏﻀﺒﻲ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺯﻭﺟﻲ؟ !
(ﻭَﻣَﻦْ ﺃَﻋْﺮَﺽَ ﻋَﻦْ ﺫِﻛْﺮِﻱ ﻓَﺈِﻥَّ ﻟَﻪُ ﻣَﻌِﻴﺸَﺔً ﺿَﻨْﻜًﺎ ﻭَﻧَﺤْﺸُﺮُﻩُ
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