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Hi bro; i hope u r alright; after u added that topic I think u expected that I’ll give u my advice or my point of view so soon; and I didn’t coz I wanted to read ur topic over and over with big attention u know to collect all pieces of ur story even it’s incomplete one, and as I see is hard story with difficult situation, and with this kind of cases we must be careful when we wanna give our advice
Until now I don’t know the whole of ur story but I’ll do my best to give u my view about ur story and my advice too and u can take it and u can leave it bro
FIRST: as I see u still in love with that girl who u knew her better than her parents as u said thus that can help u so much coz if u knew her deeply so u know her true feeling..and coz u knew her so much so u know the best way to make her ok or forgive u or how u make her be back again
SECOND: if it’s ur fault and u the one who broke the relationship –and I feel that was ur fault coz I feel the regret in ur words bro- anyway what I see here u must talk to her,don’t let that stupid thing destroys ur relationship with her,u’ll say “she’ll not talk to me,or listen to me.. she’ll ignore me”,ok ya that’s true, maybe she’ll do that but if u love her so much –and u do so much- u should bear all that coz it’s ur fault,coz if u really love her..u’ll not let her angry from u for one hour so what about 6 months ..bro !!..it’s so obvious that she is so angry from u now more and more,so be as a real man and solve ur problems, face ur problems bro u can’t keep quiet when everything breaks around u,so go and talk to her try to convince her ..show her how much u were wrong try to apologize in nice way choose ur words.. u know her ..so u can use the right words that can make her forgive u…and I’m sure she’ll forgive u and she’ll love u more and more…not all ppl knows how to apologize..she’ll appreciate ur path bro coz u won’t that relationship died..i know u’ll say it’s hard..ops.. I know it is.. but u have no choice if u really love her and u wanna keep her with u….be sure if she loves u she’ll forgive u.
THIRD : if u go to talk to her and and u explain to her everything and how much u missed her and how much u love her ..if u’ll do all that and she rejected u ..keep on trying bro …don’t forget u r the one who screwed everything and u kept quiet for long time even it was stupid thing but with ur silent all this time u made the problem bigger..even she’ll tell u bad things..it’s ok..inside her she’ll be happy coz u r trying to save ur relation with her..just somedays and u’ll see her that she forgives u.. ya it doesn’t happen in day and night …but with lil time and everything will be back as before ..if it will not be better..^^
FOURTH : if u did all what I told u before and she won’t be back to u again -it hurts- hey bro don’t be so sad at least u tried and u did what u should to do and u cleaned ur space and u did ur duty of that relationship. if she rejected u..sorry bro that’s mean TWO THINGS
u hurt her badly till the point she can’t forgive u
she doesn’t love u –ya sorry- from the start..or she doesn’t love u as much as u do.
and in these cases u’ll suffer bro for some times but at least u’ll know the truth and stop blaming ur self and feel guilty..u know don’t love someone who can’t love u…ya..save ur heart for someone who will care about it ..it’s hard but it’s true
u’ll be fine bro..don’t waste ur time on someone don’t care about u
so..take it as an experience..u learnt a lesson in ur life..so go to the next step….u know nobody’s died coz another one left him…take just the good memories and threw the rest..u are so young bro the life still waiting u..so let us see ur smile , really nothing deserves to make us so sad so mad..!!!
don’t stuck in that story for long time….there are a lot of bad and good things wait u bro….so be the strong one.
I know I wrote a newspaper here…hhh…anyway I tried to talk about all cases maybe u’ll find something can help u….i hope that u’ll get what I wanted to say to u bro
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